Find Potential Partners Who Will Love You…
Hello,
A friend of mine who has been having trouble with relationships was tired of being hurt.
She starting to learn what to look for in a relationship and the new standards that her potential partners should uphold with her.
But she came to me with something the other day… she said…
“Love is when someone does not emotionally hurt you.”
However, you should not base love on not being hurt, rather you should generalize love as being showed respect, generosity, caring, appreciation… etc… love is a demonstration of love, not a demonstration of not being hurt.
If you fell over and got a cut, it would not mean somebody loves you if they didn’t put acid on your wound, it would only mean they love you if they bandaged you up.
In relationships (no matter how perfect they are,) you will always potentially get hurt because no relationship is absolutely perfect, but it’s your ability to pick up your relationship, help each-other and support each-other in difficult times is what makes your relationships meaningful.
Love is a demonstration of loving somebody as much as you love yourself.
Just because your potential partner does not hurt you, it does not necessarily mean they love you.
Look out for the signs that display love instead – the types of qualities that would allow you to feel good with your potential partner and hold onto those potential partners.
Find somebody who will treat you well, not somebody who will not treat you bad. This is true for men and women alike.
Love,
Nicholas Finnegan
P.S. You can find potential relationships alot effortlessly once you learn how to handle the opposite sex… women go here… men go here…
