There are two very important keys you should know that will help you to deal with life in a more easier way – and also help you to strengthen the success you are building upon everyday.
Now… many of us view life as having two opposites; Success and failure…. or positive and negative.
Usually whenever someone feels bad it makes them feel stuck and almost makes them feel like there’s no way to fix the situation. On the other side when somebody feels great they see life in an abundant way and act on good decisions that lead to abundant realms of happiness.
I’m sure you can remember times as a child when you were watching cartoons and you would see cartoon characters who have an angel on one shoulder and the devil on the other; Arguing and trying to give different advice.
These two opposing forces in our lives tend to keep us in limbo, especially when you want to feel good all of the time. That’s why many of our negative experiences keep us stuck!
But instead of thinking about ‘two opposing forces’ what if you viewed negative feedback and mistakes as new learning that allows you to become stronger.
You see, it isn’t the negative things within itself that stops you from being happy, it’s ‘how’ you perceive the negative things that causes you to feel unhappy.
In other words, if you look at negative things in a ‘useless’ way, it’s just going to keep you stuck in a whirlpool of in capability.
But by cultivating the belief that allows you to view negative situations as just new information, feedback and ‘ temporary experiences’ – you begin to look at problems in ways that allow you to move on.
By cultivating this attitude you are able to increase your success and also learn from failure at the same time. This one attitude, learning, will free you from alot of pain in your life and help you to keep the ball rolling in the right directions that serve you.
One of the common things in life is that there will always be humps in the road, but instead of jumping and screaming at the hump and feeling upset about it, it’s much more useful to approach the situation with a forklift that can figure out how to get the ball rolling again.
With the attitude of learning you are able to use this forklift.
When you gain the ability to learn from failure life becomes an adventure… you know that you are moving towards greater accomplishments and your courage assists you to make your life even better.
Your life formula changes from negative and positive as opposites, to positive and learning as tools that work together to bring you more of what you want in life!
To take on this new attitude try this simple exercise…
1. Imagine another self standing in front of you equipped with all the attitudes and beliefs that allow you to feel flexible in the face of problems – with abundant resources inside of you that help you to gain more positive ideas from negative situations more easily.
2. Once you have build yourself up to be the flexible, capable and the strong person you desire to be… imagine stepping into this enhanced self now and join in with all the beliefs and attitudes, and feelings that allow you to deeply convince yourself… you are this person.
Given that you will always have a particular response to negative situations, why not design in beliefs that work smoothly for you, instead of ones that made life more difficult, doesn’t that just make alot of sense?
You already have the resources within you, it’s just about (practising and) reminding yourself of them (with this exercise) so they become automatically available to you in the real world whenever you need them.
Always ‘learn’ how to feel good, by improving on your daily successes; and learn from your mistakes to change your failures into more success to assist you in the future.
All the best,
Nicholas Finnegan
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