The Power Of Positive Beliefs! :-)

Hello,

Today let’s talk about the power of beliefs!

Many people don’t understand what beliefs are, what they do or the great impact they have on a persons behaviours, feelings, thoughts and capability.

Your beliefs act like a gate to your inner resources as a human being…

If you believe that you are a confident person, you will view the world through this belief and your mind will offer you confident resources to make your life and situations more easier to deal with.

On the contrary to this, if you believe that you are incapable, your beliefs will act like a self fulfilling prophesy. Your negative beliefs will put you into a limited frame of mind, where the only resources you can access are those that match your negative beliefs.

By virtue of building new positive beliefs, you are able to expand your frame of mind to higher levels of awareness and possibility.

A belief is an idea that you have about yourself – that you pre-suppose to be true!

In other words, if you pre-suppose that your going to fail before you even try, it isn’t necessarily a fact that your going to fail, but it’s because you pre-supposed that your a failure which is going to determine your results in given situations.

Beliefs automatically guide your thinking, feeling and behaving.

When you convince your mind that you can succeed, feel happier, create the relationship and wealth you desire, you will build new beliefs and unlock inner resources that support you to get what you want out of your life.

A great way to build new beliefs and convince your mind of something new is through the act of repetition.

You can repeat something over and over again and the more times you do it successfully, the more you will begin to believe that you can feel different about things to succeed.

The other way to build new beliefs is through mental rehearsal. If you continuously rehearse yourself feeling happy, succeeding in life and creating the results you deserve, your mind will eventually become convinced of your new beliefs to create more happiness.

Let’s go through a little exercise for you to convince your mind for success and build new positive beliefs.

1. Think about a new belief that you would like to cultivate.

(It can be anything, for example: “I am a successful person” “You are a capable individual” “I am an attractive person” “You are successful speaker” etc…)

2. Remember a time when you demonstrated the right attitudes, behaviours and feelings that would best represent this new belief.

(For example, If you wanted to feel more attractive, you would remember a time in your past when you felt more attractive, had positive thoughts like an attractive person and behaved like an attractive person. Imagine stepping into yourself all over again and notice what it feels like to take on this perspective all over again as a new belief.)

3. Remember a time when you attracted positive results into your life automatically, as a result of having the attitudes and behaviours of this new belief.

(For example: You would remember a time when someone found you attractive, without you even trying to be attractive at all. So maybe you were just minding your own business when someone came along and gave you a positive compliment, which allowed you to feel like an attractive person. This is like ‘magnetism’ through the use of your beliefs.)

4. Imagine a future scenario of yourself having the attitudes and feelings that would best represent this new belief.

(For example: Imagine yourself feeling attractive in the future, going out and meeting new people and notice the positive effects you have on your environment with the new thoughts, behaviours and feelings that allow you to present this new belief.

This simple technique works very well because you take positive feelings from your past, utilize times when you attracted positive opportunities and you also create positive goals for the future.

It helps to convince your mind of these three different things.

That you were able to create something positive in the past.

That you were able to attract something positive in the past (without any effort)

That you ARE able to imagine yourself in the future living with the beliefs that you want.

By doing this 3 step process over and over again, your mind begins to become convinced of the new beliefs that you are designing in. Eventually your mind will begin to pre-suppose it to be true, to the point where you have immediate access to it in the real world.

Do this exercise once a day for about 2-3 weeks from steps 1-4.

This exercise and many others are integrated into my ‘Hypnotic Confidence’ Hypnosis Audio Session which makes it much easier for you to design in new beliefs.

You are put into a deep hypnotic state where your mind can easily accept positive suggestions as my voice guides you through many different positive scenarios, like the ones we just went through to build positive beliefs.

Try out this exercise yourself and notice how you feel much better about your life.

Until next time…

Live with power and success,

Nicholas Finnegan

Greater Social Self Esteem Will Be Yours Today!

Having a good level of self esteem enables you to express your personality in social situations more easily. Higher Self Esteem is very important for radiating greater charisma and charm, whether it being at a friends party, a first date or a family meal.

Many people who don’t have good self esteem can find it very difficult to spark up good conversations and keep them flowing in positive directions. If someone has low self esteem, they may unconsciously believe they don’t deserve to be around positive people. A low level of self esteem can stunt many of your natural social attributes and talents if you don’t know how to create a sense of ‘flow’.

Some people focus on themselves when they communicate and this this isn’t very effective during social interactions. Many people feel like they don’t fit in with the crowd so they keep themselves to themselves. However, once you start to build on your self esteem and expand your social skills, many new opportunities to have fun and experience more pleasure will present themselves into your life.

As your confidence rises, so will your ability to attract the type of happy people you deserve in your life.

By focusing on what you want to create, rather than the limitations that once held you back, your positive vibrational energy will begin to expand and reach out to more people around you.

Remember that like attracts like!

Human beings pick-up social energies all the time. Most of these connections take place under our conscious awareness, such as when you feel that special ‘click’ with someone and you don’t know why. The more you use this type of flowing energy to communicate, and seek to expand your charisma, you’ll find your inspiration to connect with others increases substantially.

It could take some time to ‘warm up’ to the idea of socializing with more ease; Even some of the best communicators in the world start off ’shy’ before they eventually start to warm up to people around them. A great idea is to have a goal you would like to achieve before you go out to social events. This will set yourself up for greater social success.

Perhaps you would like to have some more fun, or to do something ‘out of the ordinary’ with a sense of adventure, or perhaps you would like to just make your friends feel more appreciated and loved. For you to socialize effectively most of your focus must be held on the person/people you are communicating with, by using a positive intention to make them feel good around you.

The better you can make people feel when you are in their presence, the more they are likely to enjoy your company, talk to you and open up to you; As this happens you’ll find yourself naturally opening up to them because they will open up your personality for you.

The best experience in the world is when someone gets you to come out of your shell by being nice to you, and you can achieve this wonderful phenomenon by being nice to them first… With higher self esteem you can achieve flowing conversations easily and people will flock to you as the one to follow.

Next we’ll lay out the foundations you need to naturally become a better socialist.

The most powerful way to become the life of the party is with Higher Self Esteem that is flexible in every situation. Don’t leave it to chance, take action right now!

To your social self esteem success

Do You Blame Yourself For Things That You Didn’t Even Do??

Hello,

In this post I wanted to share with you a recent question I received from one of my youtube videos.

I have re-written it slightly so it makes more sense for you in this particular post.

From, (Anommonous)

hi nicholas, wat should i do to interpret things that occurs in my daily life in a more positive way? im having tendency to blame myself if anything goes wrong even though i do realize that i did nutin wrong

Nicholas:

Hello,

If you realize that you did nothing wrong, what exactly are you blaming yourself for?

A great way to interrupt or ( better yet – utilize) negative things that occur in your daily life is to ask yourself questions that are directed towards the positive.

When you feel bad, DON’T say to yourself…

“Why am I such a failure?”

“Why does this always to happen to me?”

“Why do I always get things wrong!” etc…

When you ask your mind a question, it gives you an answer, ask a negative question and you’ll get a set of negative answers which don’t feel good.

But by asking yourself questions that are directed towards the positive, such as…

“How can I learn from this?”

“What is it about this situation that has helped me to become a stronger person?”

“How can I look at this situation differently in ways that allow me to feel better about myself?”

By doing this you are giving your mind a better direction to move towards. You are taking a negative experience and utilising it, transforming it and purifying it into positive new learnings….

You are also expanding your positive frame of reference, which allows you to come up with a greater positive foundation of ideas and resources that help you to succeed in the future.

Remember your mind will always give you what you ask for!

Whenever you notice that your blaming yourself (for something that you didn’t do :-S … STOP, become aware of what’s going on as it’s happening, and use your mind in positive directions by asking yourself better questions to support your self worth.

Turn negative into positive, by asking the right questions! And be careful what your talking yourself into!

Hope this helps

- Nick

Do you do what you hate, Instead of what you love? Part 1

Hello,

Let me ask you some important questions…

Are you happy about your life, your job, your relationship? Do you wake up in the morning feeling excited for the day ahead? Or do you hit the snooze button a dozen times before you finally drag yourself out of bed with a lousy attitude?

In life, most people tend to do what they hate, instead of what they love!

Let’s stop for a second to consider this statement…

As you look around your general society today. Many people are unhappy, and what’s even worse, they do things that don’t really fulfill them.

They are, at least, dissatisfied with the quality of their lives, or want more, but have no clue how to get it.

But why is this?

For the most part it’s either three of the following reasons.

A: You don’t think you deserve to live the life of your dreams.

B: You are too afraid to start creating the life of your dreams!

C: You don’t even think it’s possible to create the life of your dreams!

Let’s go into the first crucial step you MUST take before you can begin the process of living a better quality of life.

And that is, “You must FIRST become aware that YOU ARE NOT living the quality of life you deserve right now!”

YES! God did not put you here to be miserable, but there are alot of miserable people out there who don’t even know it yet.

Instead of ignoring yourself though, start becoming aware of your REAL desires and start respecting yourself by doing that right now! This will start the process of growth!

The fact that you are becoming aware of your desires, is already self-respect within itself! Because you are finally beginning to acknowledge who you are and who you really want to become for the future.

We all have set-backs and frustrations. And I’m sure you also have goals and dreams – something more that you aspire to be in your life!

Instead of being a spectator at a boring football game that you don’t like, get up off your ass and start becoming one of the active players in your life, who plays the active role and makes a significant difference to the game…

The FIRST step is to TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for the quality of your life, because nobody else will do it for you!

Once you take time to uphold yourself in this uplifting fashion, you will demonstrate for yourself true deservingness and personal power. Because your life becomes set by your OWN rules, not anybody else’s!

This is how you can start doing what you love in life, instead of what you hate!

In the next issue I’m going to give you the solutions to the three set-backs that stop you from creating the life of your dreams so you can start achieving real success.

If you don’t want to wait any longer – and your ready to gain the personal power to start achieving your dreams right now, grab the confidence CD while it’s still available at this special low price.

Until next time,

Nicholas Finnegan

P.S. My Hypnotic Confidence Program is bursting with all the right attitudes, beliefs and motivational skills that help you automatically create the success and confidence you desire. Go here now and grab your confidence success boosting technology today!!

YOU ARE A BEAT-DOWN FAILURE!!!

Dear reader,

Are you a beat-down failure?

Because…

There is no such thing as failure! No one can ever be a failure because failure represents giving up!

Just because you made a few mistakes doesn’t mean that you should label yourself as a failure. Doing this only keeps you stuck in a limited label of identity.

As long as you keep getting back up and learning from your mistakes you are NOT a failure since you haven’t decided to give up. Failure is actually a choice!

This is the main difference between those who succeed at achieving their goals and those that don’t!

If Thomas Edison gave up on his initial mistakes when he was inventing the light bulb, his invention wouldn’t exist and we’d be still using candles or some other form of lighting…

The fact is that Edison realized that by learning from every mistake he was able to lead up to the ultimate manifestation of achieving his dreams.

This principle is the same regarding every achievement that has been made throughout history.

If there was no such thing as mistakes we wouldn’t be able to learn from them to make us smarter, stronger and more capable individuals.

Throw away the word failure and adapt the word ‘flexibility’ to yourself.

When you become flexible in your approach towards achieving your goals, whether it being self esteem/confidence or gaining more happiness, you can mould yourself into the person who owns this success over-time.

Just like how water is flexible enough to flow through the tiniest cracks. – Learning from your mistakes and being flexible is a core skill into achieving anything you want in life!

Once you build these new attitudes within yourself and make flexibility a part of your natural everyday identity, you will find yourself approaching life’s challenges with more ease as you begin to create the life success and freedom you truly deserve.

So remember these two important points:

1. Failure means giving up!
And you should never give up on your dreams, EVER! You deserve to live a better quality of life so go for it with all your MIGHT!

2. Be flexible!
Once you become flexible you are able to learn from your mistakes, move
closer towards achieving your goals, create more choice
and increase your chances to attain ultimate life success.

The power is inside of you so make this choice right now to improve
your success and self worth once and for all!

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Best regards,

Nicholas Finnegan

The Life Innovator